My dear Amma,
Today it's about money yet, again!
It started off with my love and me discussing my divorce settlement. He mentioned a huge sum and told me I should ask for that, as I would need money to live. Asking my ex-husband for that kind of money seemed unfair , since I've never really done anything to deserve it. I got a bit emotional, but after I calmed down I did see my love's point of view. He did'nt tell me so, but I did realise I have been a burden on my ex- and would now be a burden to my love.
Money is hard earned and each of us needs to have our own. And that creates problems for me, since really I have not earned and am presently not earning either. I do see his point of view. It's not good to be a burden on anyone, even when it's somene you love and who loves you. Amma, I really don't know how to handle this. Please give me some thoughts, Amma.
With love and gratitude,
Your loving daughter,
Vidya
Dear vidya,
ReplyDeleteYou need money. Don't you? It doesn't matter who told you what, you need it and you knew it. The point is, if you knew it for yourself and act accordingly then your love and/or God need not to tell you anything. Because you do the way you fell it inside and project yourself to outside world as well. Hope you agree. God bless vidya